79When the 7 is the parent
As a parent, a 7 is thoughtful and gives space, sometimes too much of it. Children of a 7 learn to think for themselves and need to be told, in words, that they matter.
As a child, a 9 is old for their age, generous and easily wounded by unfairness. They need to be heard, and to see that the world is not all theirs to fix.