29When the 2 is the parent
As a parent, a 2 is attentive, gentle and tuned to every mood. Children of a 2 feel seen; the work is to set a boundary and keep it, because peace at any price teaches the wrong lesson.
As a child, a 9 is old for their age, generous and easily wounded by unfairness. They need to be heard, and to see that the world is not all theirs to fix.